{"id":493,"date":"2023-03-01T21:16:13","date_gmt":"2023-03-01T21:16:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.feelnubia.com\/?p=493"},"modified":"2025-06-19T16:58:32","modified_gmt":"2025-06-19T16:58:32","slug":"are-we-really-the-helpers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/feelnubiatest.com\/index.php\/2023\/village-family-relationships\/are-we-really-the-helpers\/","title":{"rendered":"He Calls You “Helpmeet”: The Power of The Helper in Marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"\r\n
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The helpmeet’s gentle hands firmly hold up her husband (Image: Clay Banks @Unsplash)<\/p><\/div>\r\n<\/figcaption>\r\n<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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Are We the Helpers?<\/h1>\r\n

Marriage can be beautiful, but let’s be honest\u2014it can also feel overwhelming. Many wives find themselves juggling multiple roles: chef, housekeeper, therapist, prayer warrior, motivator, and peacekeeper. Sometimes, it feels like you’ve been handed the entire emotional weight of your household while trying to remember where you last left your phone.<\/p>\r\n

In the middle of all this, one question rises: Are we really just the helpers?<\/em><\/p>\r\n

The short answer? Yes\u2014but not in the way the world sees it. Not as lesser, not as background support. Being a helper isn\u2019t a downgrade\u2014it\u2019s a divine appointment.<\/p>\r\n

In Genesis, when God said, \u201cI will make a help meet for him,\u201d<\/em> He wasn\u2019t handing out aprons and silence. He was giving women a role that mirrors His own. The Hebrew word for \u201chelper\u201d is ezer<\/em>\u2014the same word used to describe God as our helper in times of trouble (Psalm 121).<\/p>\r\n

You\u2019re not just \u201chelping\u201d your husband fold his socks. You\u2019re walking out a spiritual blueprint that has power, purpose, and eternal weight. Your help is not ordinary. It\u2019s heaven-sent.<\/p>\r\n

Sometimes, helping feels like dying. That is one of the hardest parts of marriage. There are moments in marriage when helping feels more like losing yourself. You give, you pour out, and some days, it feels like no one notices. The job of helper turns into full-time motivator. Cheerleader. Conflict diffuser. Officer-in-charge of everything.<\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s exhausting.<\/p>\r\n

But here\u2019s a perspective shift that changes everything: think about the seed.<\/p>\r\n

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\u201cUnless a kernel of corn falls to the ground and dies, it remains alone. But if it dies, it produces much fruit.\u201d \u2014John 12:24<\/p>\r\n<\/blockquote>\r\n

A mango seed doesn\u2019t grow in comfort. It must be consumed, spat out, buried in dirt, and left to rot before it becomes something great. Only then can it rise again\u2014not as a seed, but as a tree. One tree that will produce fruit year after year, possibly even a whole forest.<\/p>\r\n

Marriage is that seed. Your role as helper? It\u2019s the process of becoming. You\u2019re not being buried. You\u2019re being planted.<\/p>\r\n

Every act of love\u2014every quiet prayer, every sacrifice, every time you choose grace over anger\u2014is not just for your husband or your children. It\u2019s an offering to God.<\/p>\r\n

We serve not just to be thanked by our family but to hear Him say, \u201cWell done, good and faithful servant.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\r\n

So don\u2019t despise your role. It may feel hidden, but it is holy. God\u2019s design is intentional, and you, dear wife, are God\u2019s personal solution to your husband\u2019s inadequacies. You are the answer He designed. You are the fit he didn\u2019t know he needed.<\/p>\r\n

Being a helper doesn\u2019t mean carrying the world on your back. You were never meant to do it all alone. Lean into the One who made you. When your strength runs dry, lean on Him. When your heart feels worn out, rest in His presence.<\/p>\r\n

You were never asked to perform\u2014only to yield.<\/p>\r\n

The most powerful thing you can do in your marriage is surrender. Not to your husband\u2019s whims or to culture\u2019s expectations, but to the will of God. Lay your life down as a seed, and watch what the Great Gardener grows from your surrender.<\/p>\r\n

In God\u2019s hands, your quiet obedience becomes a weapon. Your humility disarms pride. Your kindness silences rage. Your faith lifts the atmosphere of your home.<\/p>\r\n

You are not just a helper. You are a hand-lifter, a heart-healer, a darkness-destroyer. You\u2019re a facilitator of purpose, a co-builder of destiny, a trusted tool in the hands of your Maker.<\/p>\r\n

So, sister, let Him wield you.<\/p>\r\n

Yield and see what He can do with a life laid down. There is strength in submission, not weakness. There is glory in sacrifice, not loss. There is victory in the hidden work, not failure.<\/p>\r\n

You are more powerful than you know. So, become!<\/p>\r\n

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IF YOU LIKED THIS ARTICLE, YOU WILL ALSO ENJOY: The Third Person in My Marriage<\/a><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

For more thoughts on the HELPMEET,<\/a> grab a copy of the e-book<\/a> with the same title by Lola Babalola. NOW selling here<\/a>!!<\/em><\/p>\r\n

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